21 – Comfort

Ivy Goodenia (Goodenia Hederacea)

Keyword: Sanctuary

A beloved teddy bear, blanket, or soother offers security in childhood, easing moments of separation from love and safety. While these comforts provide reassurance, they can also delay the natural development of emotional self-regulation and independence. If the inner child remains unhealed in adulthood, this may lead to co-dependence on external sources, addictive behaviours and relationship difficulties.

Personal growth and healing opportunities generate feelings of discomfort to prompt loving action to emotionally release wounding. Let go of the reliance of comfort. Be comfortable in uncomfortableness. Great comfort and relief can be found in truth.

This botanical, resembling a teddy bear, gently reminds us of the importance of self-trust, resilience, and autonomy.